stop war. with times of uncertainty and deciding who is socially acceptable, the best side to pick is peace. there is no path forward where resentment and anger is harbored. there is no path of peace when our focus is on records of wrongs. pointing fingers never ends good, i think we learned that lesson when we did that to our siblings growing up. parents disciplined both kids regardless of who did it. choose the path of peace and allow it to run through the garden of your heart.